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Be Free… to write a blog.

Honest, plain-language notes on therapy, parenting, neurodivergence and the work of being a young person right now.

Breana Rutledge, registered psychotherapist at Be Free Therapy

March 9, 2026

Random Facts About Me!

A little "Getting to Know Me." Top three favourites across books, travel, music, TV, film and more.

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A therapist and client meeting in a warm, welcoming space

February 16, 2026

A post for fellow therapists: Is my therapist my friend?

On transference, countertransference and the warm-but-bounded space between therapist and client.

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A fresh notebook ready for a new year of reflection

January 12, 2026

Happy New Year Everyone!

Leave perfection at the door. Pick one goal. Break it into smaller steps. A realistic take on goal-setting.

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Warm light symbolizing small moments of connection in therapy

December 8, 2025

It's the glow bugs in therapy.

For fellow therapists: the small, bright moments that remind us why the rapport matters more than the checklist.

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Two people in conversation, representing the therapy relationship

November 10, 2025

The therapeutic relationship.

How to tell when the connection with your therapist is working, and what to do when it isn't.

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A scattered desk illustrating the busy, creative ADHD mind

October 13, 2025

My top three quirks about ADHD

The Graveyard of Hobbies. Food fixations. The piles on the bedroom floor. Three honest ADHD quirks.

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A parent and teen in a tense conversation at home

September 8, 2025

You're not listening to me!

A simple script for asking for listening instead of fixing. For teens, young adults and parents.

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An empty therapy chair representing the end of therapy

August 11, 2025

Why do you end therapy?

The real reasons people end therapy, and how a good termination session can leave the door open.

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A parent and child in a moment of connection

July 14, 2025

Parents: "…but I want them to like me!"

Can you be a parent and your child's friend? A reflection on structure, love and the long game.

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A clipboard and notes representing a mental health diagnosis

June 9, 2025

What is in the name of a diagnosis?

A mental health diagnosis is a piece of the puzzle, not the whole person. On access, stigma and connection.

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A young adult pausing for a quiet moment of reflection

May 12, 2025

How are you doing?

On the automatic "good, thanks," and what opens up when we answer our loved ones honestly.

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Illustrated guide to choosing the right therapist

April 14, 2025

How to Find the Right Therapist?

Four practical tips for picking a therapist who actually fits. From profile to consult to intake.

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Breana Rutledge, child and youth therapist at Be Free Therapy

March 10, 2025

Why did I choose to be a child and youth therapist?

From Holland Bloorview to a youth shelter to private practice. The road that led Breana here.

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A quiet, reflective scene representing grief and remembrance

February 10, 2025

Grief has no expiration date.

Loss takes many forms. The hole never fills, but life grows around it.

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Laptop and notebook ready for writing the Be Free Therapy blog

January 13, 2025

Be Free… To Write A Blog!

The inaugural post on fear as protection, fear as brake, and a rescue dog named Joy.

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